If you are reading this congratulations for you have decided on taking that bold step of changing your life . if you just stumbled across my blog please I would love you to start by reading my previous post where I talked about who you are, letting you know that you are awesome and capable . I also talked about wearing a positive attitude about your life which can get you in the right mindset and direction . Then I went further saying in order for you to see different results in your life you need to make a change . if you took that bold step , turned your boat around and head for a better direction in your life then you are on your way to becoming a better version of yourself .
I’m on the right track
After I took that bold step to turn my life around , I saw that I was falling behind all this while . it was like my eyes were open to see reality. To see that some people weren’t who they said they were and they were the ones to criticize and judge my new change . I also noticed that I could have done better in school instead I was going down in grades.
I cried because I felt like a failure , then I decided on taking that bold step again . I made a list of all the things I wanted to accomplish, I call them my goals . then I started working towards it .
Desires , passion , goals backed up with action produces results . first on my list was to graduate from the university . I worked extra hard in my last semester and prayed also . God answered my prayers , I bagged my certificate last year . I also wrote on my list that I want to finish a book and open a blog . which I did , I have a complete manuscript of a novel titled ” a letter to her ” and I opened my blog www.timewithdanalyzt.wordpress.com
So what is that thing you truly desire . what is that goal in your mind that you wish to accomplish its not too late to write them down .Make a list of all your desires , break them into bits and start accomplishing them one by one .
In order to become the best version of yourself you need to put in so much work in yourself . you need to invest in your mind , build your attitude , let go of your past and live in the moment like you were never hurt or broken .
In order to become the best version of yourself you need to let go of that thing that has been pulling you down . you need to cut off those people that has been bringing you down , its not about how far or how long you’ve know them, if they ain’t pushing you to being you then they need to go .
A non smoker can’t hang out with smokers as friends , do you know why ? Because someday the non smoker would be tempted to smoke and if that person is not of high discipline they might fall for it . like they say “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are ” this statement has been proven to be true .
The people you associate with affects your life . if you want to succeed in business then hang out with successful business men . if you want to be a great model then hang out with expertise in the business . make friends according to your niche .
Choose your friends don’t let them choose you .
Work on yourself , read books , be creative , at all times invest in yourself . that’s why I have a book club so we can all invest more in our selves . we just finished reading jen sincero ” you are a badass ” if you are interested in reading more books then send me a message .
Don’t stop working , no matter how much you fail don’t stop . don’t fear failure , fight that fear and don’t let that fear fight you . you are a fighter , you are a winner so at all times win .
Don’t stop winning .
You are a continuous work in progress.
P.s it was Oprah birthday yesterday . she’s my mentor and I love her so much. Happy birthday Oprah 💖